By Rong Xiaoqing (Global Times)
My mom won't like that I am writing this piece.
Like many Chinese people, she follows the traditional view that if you are taking advantage of something, you should only express your appreciation, not your complaints.
But as a journalist trained in the US, I was told by professors and editors not to hesitate to criticize anything, even if it is the major advertiser for your own newspaper or a charity you admire a lot.
Nothing is perfect, and the US journalists' mantra is that freedom of speech is an essential right. So I decided to exercise my right to take a close look at the right itself.
While I am writing this, my media colleagues in China are fretting because of the recent incident at Guangzhou-based Southern Weekly when the paper's exclusive interview with US President
Obama was delayed for publication and severely cut because authority insisted on checking the content before it went public.
Hardly a surprise, but it did once again make those of us working in the US feel lucky. Here journalists won't get the do's and don'ts list from the authorities and other than the editor, no one has the right to read your copy before publication, let alone alter it.
US authorities sometimes also try to interfere in editorial matters, but the courts, thanks to the First Amendment that protects freedom of speech, thwart most of the attempts.
In fact, even within the Western world, journalists' right to tell a story has much better pro-tection in the US than in many other countries.
The US protections may be good for journalists, but the reality is that not everyone is as lucky as we are. The President of Columbia University Lee Bollinger was blasted two years ago for allowing Iranian President Mahmoud Ahmadinejad to speak at the university.
And while American computer manufacturers were complaining earlier this year about the Chinese government's plans (later aborted) to demand all new computers carry Green Dam software, TV manufacturers in the US have long been required to install the V-chip, a device that allows parents to block their kids from accessing certain TV programs.
Even in American journalism, many people find that they don't have much freedom to speak their minds.
It is true that there is no such thing as a Propaganda Department here, but almost all entities have a public relations office, which can work in a similar way.
In a more sophisticated corporate empire like the US, the function of the PR office is not only spreading "good" news and trying to prevent "bad" news. By designating a spokesman, a company also sends out a message to the rest of its employees to keep silent.
This doesn't only happen in the private sector. Few government officials will talk to the media before being cleared by their PR office.
In New York the 130,000 teachers in the public schools are not allowed to talk to reporters before getting approval from the Department of Education.
It's arguable that government agencies and corporations have rights to protect their privacy. But many times people decline to talk for fear of being punished, even when the topic is nothing related to the employer.
One banker recently told me "the company wants to be low key, and we were told not to talk to a reporter about anything." He gave me that answer even though I was only asking about his experience as a new immigrant in the US.
But still, a more dangerous threat to freedom of speech in the US may not be the top down iron hand but the self censorship engaged in by people every day.
This is a country in which a series of laws have been enacted to try to deal with long standing economic, racial and gender inequality. But at the same time this has created over sensitivity and a culture of victimization among some people. As a result, honesty often has to give way to political correctness and opinions have sometimes to be zipped away.
Using "African American" to replace "black" and "undocumented immigrants" for "illegal" may only seem like modest steps toward political correctness, but if a white manager doesn't dare to tell off poor performing black staff so that he avoids a racist label then something is just not quite right.
Sometimes, honesty can lead to a more direct loss.
In New York City, if a hair salon lists different prices for male and female clients on its window, it can be fined $500. This is the case even though everyone knows women's hair usually takes longer to cut than men's.
Of course all of this isn't quite the equivalent of Chinese media censorship.
But the question of freedom of speech can be as much about grays as about black and white.
The author is a New York-based journalist.