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Surrogate mothers trigger moral debates

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Surrogate mothers trigger moral debates

Legal loopholes are allowing surrogacy agencies in China to cash in on the underground womb-to-rent business, sparking debates on ethics among the public.


Underground networks of surrogacy agents, hospitals, and doctors have sprung up in recent years as infertile Chinese couples with money hire surrogate mothers to have babies for them.


"We know it's not legal but it's worth the risk as my husband and I really want a baby to complete the family," said a 36-year-old woman surnamed Fang in Shenzhen, whose attempts to conceive never succeeded.


Their surrogate, a 23-year-old village girl, is two months pregnant. Fang and her husband paid nearly 100,000 yuan ($14,600), which included 60,000 yuan for the girl to pay her father's medical bills.


Xiao Yun (alias) has twice given birth to a child she will not raise.


"For the second time in 2006 I even inseminated myself, with the sperm of the husband of another woman, and later gave birth to the child, whom I would never meet again," recalled the 32-year-old woman who migrated to Guangzhou from her hometown village in Sichuan eight years ago.


Her motivation was financial.


"I've no choice as I have my own children to support," said the widow, who has earned 170,000 yuan for being a surrogate. "I'm not ashamed of what I did and feel happy to help those in need," she said.


The brokers who match couples with surrogate mothers feel the same way.


Liu Baojun, 31, who runs Daiyun.com, a surrogate agency headquartered in Ningbo, Zhejiang province, said his agency connects prospective parents with surrogate mothers in a legal and professional manner.


"We have brought happiness to dozens of infertile couples through our services," he said. "For each successful match, the agency gets at least 10,000 yuan."


Such agencies recruit girls, often from poor villages, to have babies on behalf of prospective parents, industry insiders said.


The paid surrogates in return get a certain amount of cash compensation in addition to their living expenses, rent, medical fees and transportation. The sum is usually calculated based on the surrogate's two-year salary, according to an agent surnamed Liu at a Shenzhen-based surrogacy agent. The number and scale of surrogacy agencies continue to rise despite the strict ban on surrogacy imposed by the Ministry of Health in 2001.


As of 2007, nearly 100 medical institutions nationwide have been authorized by the Ministry of Health to carry out assisted reproductive technologies (ART), according to latest official statistics.


But they are prohibited from using the technology for commercial use like the surrogacy.


Any hospitals who are found to be involved in such practices would have their ART licenses revoked. However, many still take the risk for fat profits.


All medical procedures including in-vitro fertilization and child delivery are arranged by the agency at local key public hospitals qualified for ART to guarantee smooth procedures and healthy babies, said Liu.


"We have good and long- term cooperation with their directors," she explained.


Besides the ministry ban on surrogacy, there is no law outlawing the practice of surrogacy agencies, experts said. They urged the authorities to better regulate the situation.


Liu Zhijun, a sociology professor with Zhejiang University, said surrogacy should be ended since it is against social morals.


"The surrogacy often ends in tragedy, like extra-marital affairs, family disputes and even crime," he added.


However, supporters of surrogacy respond that a total ban would prompt those who want children to turn to ways that are more harmful to society, which might increase scams, extortion and other crimes.


China Daily


If you failed to conceive a baby yourself, which way would you prefer to satisfy your parenthood, to adopt a baby, or to have one through surrogacy?

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"RISK OR A TAKEAWAY"

Adoption is a much cleaner and low risk undertaking to supplement a human's desire to have a more complete family structure. This way, intended parents at least know for sure that they are having a personal pick for the best in their own sights, minds and hearts; and on top of it, they are doing the parentless children or babies as innocent as they can be in the world a great favor and for a good 'karmic reward'.

Surrogacies and other artificial insemination methods are quite debateable; and this topic does carry lots of human emotions which are often led to family splits and deeper emotional stresses. For examples:

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If the new born is not the gender that you wish, how emotionally are you prepared to accept?

   
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If the new born is mentally disorder on discovery later on or partly bodily deformed at the first instance, what are you prepared to accept?


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If the new born was born from a donor egg, what will you be prepared to accept if the baby turns out to be a different skin color from the intended parents?


In China, adoption is the better method and more patriotic way while it is a guaranteed safe 'delivery' in a full blown baby of your sighted liking rather than a high proportion of risks involved otherwise. Though intended parents are usually well to do people, costs seem difficult to deter them from taking all the risks.

If a LAW is legally allowing surrogacies, then the Law Book ought to impose heavy penalties on 'operators', surrogate mothers and intended parents (legally married or not) if the issues below herein are not carried out fairly:

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Say, the surrogate mother dies or partially suffers impairments and/or permanently makes disabled due to pregnancy complications, how much to be compensated and who are responsible for the surrogate's surviving members of family?


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Say, the 'operators' shed responsibilities out of any complication, who shall be responsible?


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Are there insurances that cover such 'operations' for the intended parents and surrogate mothers?


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Are agreements legally recognisable and acceptable by any Legal Judiciary?

     
Of course there are many clinics around the world who can organise legal surrogacies (eg. "womb_4_hire" in India, Brussels, certain US States, Ukraine, etc...) and other methods of deliveries; but does China need a legal system to support such demand? Obviously, China has already too big a population and it cannot absorb more "artificial means" if that is possible.

Intending parents should consider this example:
Even puppies are adopted as family members and the relationship between a dog and person can be developed into inseparable relationship more faithfully than human to human! In a way, adoption of a new born baby for a family fulfilment may not be a bad idea. Have a hearty go at it and feel the difference in life!

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Black market for surrogate mothers has ever growing in China with the expanding demands from infertile wealthy couples for their biological babies. Blood tie is always unrivaled in the Chinese family values, therefore the Chinese couple would prefer to "rent" a womb to conceive a baby carrying on thier genetic code instead of adopting a baby. But the chaotic surrogacy market in recent years has already induced many moral disputes over, say, the true parenthood of the baby, and the commercialization of the baby.

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"WHY RISK WHEN THE GOING IS GOOD?"

There are more ways to happiness than risking an emotional nature when in actual fact there is no requirement to add emotional stress to a life. The world of today's youths are growing in new directions and family values are diverse and often seem directionless as well as less adherence to original or cultural values due to a new and open world of affairs from something to anything that are happening around us all in this world.

Commercialisation of ‘new borns’ of any womb and from any womb is undertaken with little or no attention to the well being of the intended parents and the new borns; but only to the 'commercial businesses' for monetary rewards. Your emotional values and stresses are entirely different from 'commercial operators' because the aims and rewards are in different categories; and hope it can be sensed and seen righteously.  Hence, their common choice is not the same as yours in whatever form of debates on this issue! Give yourself some time to cool off and rethink very carefully for longer term objectives and aims in a life time.

If there are life savings and assets, no worry, there are more than a million ways to fulfil your own dreams and dreams for others in this whole wide world with a sound pre-structured framework which might and can be your best dreams ever so sweet!  HAVE A GO!



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